Teaching on the Floor - Unsolicited teaching: - Soliciting teaching on the floor: Of course it's not always that bad. Dancers can learn quite a bit from each other in social dancing; observing a few simple points will make things enjoyable for all: Don't say "teach me" the moment someone asks you to dance. If they are shy, they will feel trapped, will spend the next few minutes with you, and then for the rest of the night will avoid you like the plague. If they are not so shy, they will not teach you, and for the rest of the night will avoid you like the plague. A good approach is the following: when asked to dance, one can say ``I would like to, but I don't know the dance.'' This shows that help would be appreciated, but without any pressure. The asker in this situation can either offer to take the partner on the floor and do some basic steps, or if s/he is not so inclined, take it as a decline of dance: ``Oh, it would have been fun, perhaps we can do a different dance later?'' It is better to request help from friends, or at least someone you have had a dance or two with already, rather than someone you just met. If anythings, this is a great motivation to make friends in the dance community. If you want to get pointers from someone, wait until s/he sits out a dance. Then go talk to her/him. This way they are not missing out on a dance by helping you. Your outfit and accessories should be comfortable, safe, and also reflect the culture and level of formality of the dance group. Most importantly, do not forget your dance shoes. Ask everyone to dance. Do not monopolize one partner for the whole night. Today's beginners will be the good dancers of tomorrow, so be nice to them and dance with them. Do not decline a dance unless you absolutely have to. Having declined a dance, you cannot dance the same song with someone else. Be considerate of other couples on the floor. Exercise good floorcraft. Do not cut other couples off. No aerials or choreographed steps on the social dance floor! Stationary dancers (e.g. Swing dancers) stay in the middle, traveling dancers move on the boundary along the line of dance. Avoid patterns that your partner cannot do: dance to the level of your partner. Never blame your partner for missteps. No unsolicited teaching on the floor! Smile, be warm, be personable, be nice. Author: Unknown |
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